PATIENCE-part 2

I had a weird dream last night.

I saw a different background.There's my home and my schoolmates had gathered at my house for some kind of get-together party. Everyone was having fun except me.I am all mesmerized by seeing their faces after such a long time, may be i was going through some mixed emotions at that moment. Loud musics, greetings, conversations going on around me but I wanted some peace so i went outside and then i saw HIM.

I was stoned. What was he doing there??

And why was he in my dreams even??

A shitty memory of my past that i want to completely erase from my happy life.

But why does he keep on intruding in my present life?

I know i don't love him anymore but even the appearance of him in my dreams makes me uncomfortable.

I watched him approaching towards me and giving me a smile. He is in his best behavior that day(God knows why?). He tries to say something which was inaudible and holds my hand!!!!!

That sensation of him touching me wakes me up from that torturous DREAM.

I was panting for God sake.

Thank God!!! It was just a dream. 

I told my boyfriend about this nonsense dream and he was chilled even after hearing the whole story and told me not to think and waste time on useless stuff.

I know somewhere at any point he felt bad but he understood my situation too. And it was just a dream not intentional situation created right???

But here i want to point out a very important thing in a long distance relationship and yes you guys guessed it right...

                              It's TRUST!!!

Being in a long distance relationship for quite a long time now has taught me one very important lesson of life. In order to continue the journey together we need to believe in each other. Without trust it's really hard to pull off the bond of love.

With love comes the great responsibility of maintaining it in the long run.

I hope you all remember that the previous part of this blog ended at a point where we were thinking to end the relationship.

so did we end it or not????  

Every time when i wanted to give up there was always some force telling me to give it a little bit of time. I have had acquaintances with lot of people during my journey till date but with this guy i really don't know what is there in between us that makes us inseparable. It may sound a bit cliche but trust me we both are connected more by souls than by body.

He's definitely not the PERFECT guy but i can give you assurance that he is the perfect one for me.

He made me realize that everything happens for our own good whether good or bad. He made me fall in LOVE once again. He never impose his opinion upon me . We both are two individual and like the way are. When you are in love i guess there is no need to change each other completely. I agree that some adjustments are necessary but not COMPROMISES. 

So coming back to the important question after so much of unnecessary blabbering.... WE DID NOT BREAK UP.

We just could not.

May be that was meant to be.

Let's see how far the destiny take us in this precious journey of our togetherness.

This incident has definitely taught me to be patience and to trust the person you love and to see the situation with their perspective too. I won't say that i have mastered the theory of relationship and all. I am also learning from my mistakes like you guys only. But trust me if there is any kind of misunderstanding between you and your partner try to solve it through talks. Don't just shut the door at their face.

Everything needs a second chance right??

But this case applies only on a genuine partner. Don't ever waste your precious time over an asshole.

Long distance relationship is difficult to maintain but not impossible. We both are trying our best to maintain a healthy relationship through our understanding, trust and most importantly communication.