PATIENCE- Part 1
The worst part of life is
Waiting.
The best part of life is
having someone worth
waiting for.
If you ask me genuinely how i feel about being patience ....my answer would be
"it SUCKS".
Probably you people already know that i am in a long distance relationship for more than a year now. This coming year precisely in the month of February we are completing our two years together. Now when i look back into the time capsule it reminds me of the day when i met the love of my life for the first time. The first meeting is always special no matter what. When that moment flashes back and forth inside my mind there's a sweet smile you will notice on my face.
I still remember the day. It was 4th of February when i went to meet him for the first time. I cannot explain you the exact feelings i was experiencing at that moment , i was excited and was nervous at the same time.
oh Gosh i can still feel the goosebumps!!!
I was waiting there for him to come and pick me up. We were supposed to go for a long ride for our first date and after that a dinner together. Truly speaking those five minutes were the longest period of my life that i had waited for someone but i guess that " WAIT" was worth the value. I am waiting there impatiently, looking in all possible directions to find that one face which was still unknown yet known. Suddenly my cellphone rings. I bring it towards my face to look up for the number to see and YES
it's him.
I pick up the call still searching for him like a mad person there (p.s- i should have worn my contact lenses). He tells me to turn back and i look straight in the direction and there he is standing with his bike and a huge smile on his face. May be due to reflex action or something... i literally don't know what it was but i too smiled back. I walked towards him , exchanged greetings and then we went in for a long ride.
It was a bit chilled weather that day and me being such a smart kid forgot to take my jacket along with me.
VIOLA!!
As we were heading towards our destination i started feeling cold and i could see no way out there in the middle of the road so i asked him if i could just slide my hands in the pocket of his jacket and obviously the answer was yes.
he could not have left me to die. right?
I am so bad at jokes. Anyways that's another matter. We will discuss it some other time.
We had our dinner together and then we talked a bit about our studies and other interests.
After that he dropped me home. We said goodbyes though we wanted to spend some more time together but we couldn't do so .....WHY?
Because i had my morning classes the very next day and i could not have missed that class for any reason.
So we continued our late night chats, texts for the next TWO days nonstop. As we were talking over the phone.. as far as i remember it was 6 o'clock in the morning and he suddenly proposed me and i was in a shock because i was a dumb person and i was not expecting that proposal in that weird kind of time zone. So i asked him to give me some more time to answer to his question. He granted me ample amount of time and after making him wait for few days i said YES !!!!
And that was how our journey began.
But everything can't remain the same for a Forever right?? We dated for a month . Everything was going fine. And then one day he comes and tells me that he has been called for a job interview in Mumbai and he was in a dilemma whether to go or not (the reason behind the situation was ME). He did not wanted to leave me and go but it was once in a lifetime kind of opportunity and i suggested him to go and give it a try.
I was pretty sure he would get through the interview and he Did.
He was asked to join the office the very next MONTH.
DAMN!!!
when i heard the news i was genuinely happy from the bottom of my heart but my first expression was like " How the hell on earth are we going to keep up our relationship intact and that too by living far way from each other in two different cities"????
But we decided that we will make it work at any cost. We were so determined like we have never been before....
I would have definitely topped the class if i was so determined like seriously.
He left for Mumbai the next month.
First two months went quite well. We were on the phone every single day. We would face time each other every night. Everything seemed like a dream. We were living in a "la la land ".
But soon things worsened and we started fighting frequently without any reasons.
Me always complaining regarding the amount of time he was bestowing upon me . I was not happy with that, on the other hand he was angry on me as i was unable to understand his situation of being stuck with the office work. No one was ready to keep aside their ego and talk and that was the BIGGEST problem.
And so we decided to call it a QUIT!!!!!
Waiting.
The best part of life is
having someone worth
waiting for.
If you ask me genuinely how i feel about being patience ....my answer would be
"it SUCKS".
Probably you people already know that i am in a long distance relationship for more than a year now. This coming year precisely in the month of February we are completing our two years together. Now when i look back into the time capsule it reminds me of the day when i met the love of my life for the first time. The first meeting is always special no matter what. When that moment flashes back and forth inside my mind there's a sweet smile you will notice on my face.
I still remember the day. It was 4th of February when i went to meet him for the first time. I cannot explain you the exact feelings i was experiencing at that moment , i was excited and was nervous at the same time.
oh Gosh i can still feel the goosebumps!!!
I was waiting there for him to come and pick me up. We were supposed to go for a long ride for our first date and after that a dinner together. Truly speaking those five minutes were the longest period of my life that i had waited for someone but i guess that " WAIT" was worth the value. I am waiting there impatiently, looking in all possible directions to find that one face which was still unknown yet known. Suddenly my cellphone rings. I bring it towards my face to look up for the number to see and YES
it's him.
I pick up the call still searching for him like a mad person there (p.s- i should have worn my contact lenses). He tells me to turn back and i look straight in the direction and there he is standing with his bike and a huge smile on his face. May be due to reflex action or something... i literally don't know what it was but i too smiled back. I walked towards him , exchanged greetings and then we went in for a long ride.
It was a bit chilled weather that day and me being such a smart kid forgot to take my jacket along with me.
VIOLA!!
As we were heading towards our destination i started feeling cold and i could see no way out there in the middle of the road so i asked him if i could just slide my hands in the pocket of his jacket and obviously the answer was yes.
he could not have left me to die. right?
I am so bad at jokes. Anyways that's another matter. We will discuss it some other time.
We had our dinner together and then we talked a bit about our studies and other interests.
After that he dropped me home. We said goodbyes though we wanted to spend some more time together but we couldn't do so .....WHY?
Because i had my morning classes the very next day and i could not have missed that class for any reason.
So we continued our late night chats, texts for the next TWO days nonstop. As we were talking over the phone.. as far as i remember it was 6 o'clock in the morning and he suddenly proposed me and i was in a shock because i was a dumb person and i was not expecting that proposal in that weird kind of time zone. So i asked him to give me some more time to answer to his question. He granted me ample amount of time and after making him wait for few days i said YES !!!!
And that was how our journey began.
But everything can't remain the same for a Forever right?? We dated for a month . Everything was going fine. And then one day he comes and tells me that he has been called for a job interview in Mumbai and he was in a dilemma whether to go or not (the reason behind the situation was ME). He did not wanted to leave me and go but it was once in a lifetime kind of opportunity and i suggested him to go and give it a try.
I was pretty sure he would get through the interview and he Did.
He was asked to join the office the very next MONTH.
DAMN!!!
when i heard the news i was genuinely happy from the bottom of my heart but my first expression was like " How the hell on earth are we going to keep up our relationship intact and that too by living far way from each other in two different cities"????
But we decided that we will make it work at any cost. We were so determined like we have never been before....
I would have definitely topped the class if i was so determined like seriously.
He left for Mumbai the next month.
First two months went quite well. We were on the phone every single day. We would face time each other every night. Everything seemed like a dream. We were living in a "la la land ".
But soon things worsened and we started fighting frequently without any reasons.
Me always complaining regarding the amount of time he was bestowing upon me . I was not happy with that, on the other hand he was angry on me as i was unable to understand his situation of being stuck with the office work. No one was ready to keep aside their ego and talk and that was the BIGGEST problem.
And so we decided to call it a QUIT!!!!!
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